You're not alone, and there's nothing wrong with you. Fear of the unknown, fear of rejection, fear of failure, worrying about what 'they' will say (i.e. fear of embarrassment or hurt feelings) - these are all normal worries.
But that's just you talking to yourself. You need to talk to yourself in a different way. Here are some EXCELLENT words of wisdom on this subject by the late Jim Rohn:
I have found that sometimes the subtle difference in our attitude, which of course can make a major difference in our future, can be as simple as the language we use. The difference in even how you talk to yourself or others. Consciously making a decision to quit saying what you don't want and to start saying what you do want. I call that faith. Believing the best, hoping for the best and moving toward the best.
A few examples could be, instead of saying, "What if somebody doesn't respond?”, you start saying, “What if they do respond?”. Instead of saying, “What if someone says no?”, you say, “What if they say yes?”. Instead of, "What if they start and quit?” you say ‘What if they start and stay?” Or instead of “What if it doesn't work out?” you say “What if it does work out?”
And the list goes on and on.
But that's just you talking to yourself. You need to talk to yourself in a different way. Here are some EXCELLENT words of wisdom on this subject by the late Jim Rohn:
I have found that sometimes the subtle difference in our attitude, which of course can make a major difference in our future, can be as simple as the language we use. The difference in even how you talk to yourself or others. Consciously making a decision to quit saying what you don't want and to start saying what you do want. I call that faith. Believing the best, hoping for the best and moving toward the best.
A few examples could be, instead of saying, "What if somebody doesn't respond?”, you start saying, “What if they do respond?”. Instead of saying, “What if someone says no?”, you say, “What if they say yes?”. Instead of, "What if they start and quit?” you say ‘What if they start and stay?” Or instead of “What if it doesn't work out?” you say “What if it does work out?”
And the list goes on and on.
But here is the great news: You can start this
process anytime. For me it was at age 25. At 25 I'm broke. Six years
later I'm a millionaire. Somebody says, “What kind of revolution, what
kind of change, what kind of thinking, what kind of magic had to
happen? Was it you?” And I say, “No. Any person, any six years, 36 to
42, 50 to
56. Whatever six years; whatever few years you go on an intensive,
accelerated personal-development curve, learning curve, application
curve, and learning the disciplines.” Now, it might not take the same
amount of time, but I'm telling you the same changes and the same
rewards in some different fashion are available for those who pay that
six–year price. And you might find that whether it's in the beginning
to help get you started, or in the middle to keep you on track, that
your language can have a great impact on your attitude, actions and
results.
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